Change Your Perspective

26 02 2010

Jeremiah 29:11
“For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.”

It is important that we share this view that God has about our lives. That His love for us is immeasurable, and His plans for us are good! It is true that, “How you view your own life, will determine the course of it”. If you view your life as a party, your mission will be to have fun. If you view your life as a race, you will value speed and will probably be in a hurry much of the time.

You will learn a lot about someone, and even about yourself by asking the question, “How do you view life?”. That is why it is vital to challenge our default thinking and replace it with God’s perspective and purpose for our lives.

Romans 12:2
“Do not conform yourselves to the standards of this world, but let God transform you inwardly by a complete change of your mind. Then you will be able to know the will of God.”

This verse breaks down the simple and practical steps of how to make sure that our view point is in line with God’s, so that we can fulfill His purpose for our lives!

-Don’t conform to the standards of the world
-Allow God to transform you by changing how you think!

QUESTIONS:
1. Why is it often hard to believe the promise found in Jeremiah 29:11 (that God’s love for us is immeasurable, and His plans for us are good)?
2. Are there areas in your life that you’re living by the world’s standards instead of by God’s standards?
3. Take some time today and think about Romans 12:2. Are there mindsets that you need to get rid of, and replace with God’s Word? Go ahead, put it into practice! You won’t regret it!

PRAYER:
“God, I want to have Your perspective. Help me to understand and believe Your promises for my life, that I may bring You praise by living for Your purpose!”





God Has Put Eternity in the Hearts of Men

25 02 2010

Ecclesiastes 3:11 (Amp)
He has made everything beautiful in its time. He also has planted eternity in men’s hearts and minds [a divinely implanted sense of a purpose working through the ages which nothing under the sun but God alone can satisfy]…

It’s hardwired inside of us. We instinctively realize that life is far more expansive than our short time on earth. One day our heart will stop beating and our season on this side of eternity will be over and a new season will begin. When our physical bodies cease, we don’t. Our body may die, but our spirit and soul are finally freed. The Bible calls our earthly bodies “a tent” that one day will be torn down so that we can have a new home in heaven that will last forever. (2 Corinthians 5:1-5)

Even though we have many choices while we are here on earth, eternity offers only two choices: heaven or hell. If you learn to love and trust God’s Son, Jesus, you will be invited to spend the rest of eternity with him. On the other hand, if you reject his love, forgiveness, and salvation, you will spend eternity apart from God. Too often, the only time we think about eternity is when we attend a funeral. Let us take a moment to reflect on what a life with eternity in perspective would look like. What would we prize? What would be unimportant? What relationships would we restore? The most important question we need to ask is, “how is my relationship with God?”

QUESTIONS:
1. When was the last time you really evaluated your life with eternity in mind?
2. What are you doing right now to prepare for eternity?

PRAYER:
“God help me to live in right relationship with You. I choose to prioritize You over everything, so I can spend eternity with You.”





Driven

24 02 2010

Everyone’s life is driven by something. What is the driving force in your life?

You may be driven by a problem, a pressure, or a deadline. Maybe you are driven by a painful memory, a haunting fear, or an unconscious belief. Or perhaps you are driven by the desire to please others. There are many forces that can drive your life, but they all lead to the same dead end: unused potential, unnecessary stress, and an unfulfilled life.

That’s why nothing matters more than discovering and living out God’s plan of significance for your life, and nothing can compensate for not pursuing that plan – not success, wealth, fame, or pleasure. Without God’s plan of significance, life is motion without meaning, activity without direction, and events without reason. Without true significance, life is trivial, petty, and pointless.

In the Bible, many different people expressed this hopelessness. Isaiah complained, “I have labored to no purpose; I have spent my strength in vain and for nothing.” Job said, “My life drags by-day after hopeless day” and “I give up; I am tired of living. Leave me alone. My life makes no sense.”

The greatest tragedy is not death, but life without significance. If you have felt hopeless, don’t despair – for there is true hope in God! God says, “I know what I am planning for you. . . . I have good plans for you, not plans to hurt you. I will give you hope and a good future.’”

Amazing things will happen in your life as you begin to live out God’s plan of significance. Ask God to help you and be the driving force of your life today.

QUESTIONS:
1. If you asked your family and friends to describe what drives your life, what would they mention?
2. Why do you think most people are not driven and guided by the God’s plan of significance for their lives?
3. What habits, hurts, hang-ups or fears might keep you from beginning to live out and discover God’s plan of
significance for your life?

PRAYER:
“God, I want my life to be driven by You. Help me to stay focused on You and not be distracted from living out Your ways.”





Oops!

23 02 2010

Most people would admit there are times in their lives they wish they could go back and do it all over again. Maybe it was a conversation that didn’t go well or a decision that felt good at the time, but ended badly. All of us wish life had a “rewind” button that we could find ourselves back at that original place prior to the “oops.”

Sometimes life itself feels like one big “oops.” A series of choices and decision have not panned out well, and have left you feeling like your whole life is a mistake. Here is a great truth: “God made you and He does not make mistakes.”

Rick Warren stated in his book “The Purpose Driven Life.”
“Your birth was no mistake or mishap, and your life is no fluke of nature. Your parents may not have planned you, but that doesn’t mean God didn’t plan you. He works even through human error and failings, and he was not surprised by your birth; in fact, he expected it. It is not fate, nor chance, nor luck, nor coincidence that you are breathing at this very moment. You are alive because God wanted to create you! The Bible says, ‘The LORD will fulfill his purpose for me.’ “

God created you for a purpose and to live a significant life! He also decided when you would be born and how long you would live. He planned the days of your life in advance, choosing the exact time of your birth and death.

Psalms 139:16 (NLT)
“You saw me before I was born and scheduled each day of my life before I began to breathe. Every day was recorded in your Book!”

God’s purposes take into account human mistakes, even sin. This does not mean that God causes or condones sin or evil-He does not. It does mean God is able to redeem any and all situations and use them for his own good; even your “oops” moments! No matter what mistakes you have made, he wants to redeem your life and desires for you to love, worship and serve him!

QUESTIONS:
1. Have you ever felt like you wanted to “do life over again?”
2. Is it easy for you to believe that God created you and has a purpose for your life?
3. What areas of your life do you need God to redeem and use them for his good?

PRAYER:
“God, thank You for the plans that You have for my life. Today I choose to be who You have created me to be, direct me in Your ways.”





It All Begins With God

22 02 2010

Perspective is limited by point of view. We only see things from where we are standing. From our point of view, life can seem to be all about us: our personal fulfillment, our peace of mind, and our happiness. It can seem to be about our family, our career, and our dreams and ambitions. But our point of view is limited; self-orientation quickly becomes narrow-minded and unfulfilling. You won’t discover life’s meaning by looking within yourself. In fact, the Bible says,

Matthew 16:25 (Message)
Self-help is no help at all. Self-sacrifice is the way, my way, to finding yourself, your true self.

Good perspective must come from a better point of view. God has perspective. The perspective only a Creator, a Savior, a Father can have; a perspective of love and true purpose. If you want to know why you were placed on the planet, you have to begin with God. When we look into ourselves for meaning, all we find is fear, insecurity, greed, loneliness, and selfishness – because we are asking the wrong person! The question, “What is the point?” can only be answered by God. Only the Creator can explain the creation.

Ephesians 1:11 (Message)
It’s in Christ that we find out who we are and what we are living for. Long before we first heard of Christ and got our hopes up, he had his eye on us, had designs on us for glorious living, part of the overall purpose he is working out in everything and everyone.

This verse tells us three important things. First, we discover our purpose through our understanding of our relationship to God. God desires a relationship with you! Secondly, God was thinking about our purpose long before we were! His purpose for your life started even before you were born! You get to choose your career, your hobbies, even your spouse, but you don’t get to choose your purpose. Third, your purpose is much bigger than even your life. God has a cosmic-sized purpose that you are part of. Without God, life doesn’t make sense.

QUESTIONS:
1. Have you ever wondered about, or been confused about, the point of your life?
2. What ways have you tried to find meaning and fulfillment that haven’t worked?

PRAYER:
“God, I want to live out your purpose for my life! Thank you for leading and guiding me so I never have to travel this journey alone!”





Weak

17 02 2010

Here’s something I’ve discovered during my lifetime: Americans love their bodies. We just are infatuated with our physical self. In 2007, Americans spent 13 billion dollars on non-surgical, cosmetic surgeries. This means they weren’t necessary surgeries. 13 billion dollars just to look better. Yet, no matter how hard we try, someday this body gets old. Nonetheless, we are obsessed with our physical self, with our bodies.

Well, the apostle Paul wraps up his letter to the Corinthian church, known as 2 Corinthians in our Bibles, by talking about our earthly bodies. He mentions that when we die and leave this earthly body, we will enter heaven with new bodies. Each and every one of us has been given an earthly body; therefore, each and every one of us is decaying. This world and everything in it is decaying.

Paul refers to our bodies here on earth as “tents.” For those of you who have gone camping, you know what it is like to spend any amount of time in a tent. It’s fun, but after a while, we begin to realize the best thing about going camping. The best part is that it’s temporary. You can only have so many nights of sleeping on the ground, so many beans over the campfire, and then it’s nice to go back home. Paul is saying that this body—this earthly “tent,”—is okay, but thank God we’re going home. It’s okay, but I wouldn’t want to live in this forever. Your body was just meant to be temporary; it goes away. You see, what we deem to be so important and valuable doesn’t last.

Now, secular historians wrote down what the apostle Paul looked like. He was a stocky man who walked bow-legged and hunched over. This was because he had been beaten so many times for the cause of Christ. His back was all gnarled, because the muscle and tissue had been beaten so much that it had healed in little knots. Towards the end of his life, he was having trouble with mobility. Therefore, I think if anyone has the ability to talk about how the body is temporary, it is Paul. He’s not saying that we shouldn’t be good stewards of our bodies. No, take care of yourself, but don’t put your identity in something that is temporary and decaying. Even James says in James 4:14 that your life is a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. It’s like a little spray of water—that tiny mist—from a spray bottle. Seconds after you spray it in the air, it disappears.

We have a heavenly investment in this earthly container. God invests part of Himself into this decaying “tent.” He puts something supernatural into something that is so natural. He puts a deposit of His Holy Spirit inside each of us that have put our faith in His Son Jesus Christ; it’s a little bit of Himself inside of us. Therefore, the Holy Spirit goes where we go. He sees what we see. This is why we feel convicted when we participate in certain activity; it is the Holy Spirit declaring that we are living outside of our original purpose. We are putting too much emphasis on the temporary. Rather, live with eyes focused on the eternal.

Paul also declares that how we use our bodies has an eternal impact. We’d better be very intentional and very careful about how we live our lives. Eternity is forever. How we live our lives here on this earth affects our entire existence for the rest of eternity.

Paul goes on in chapter 6 of 2 Corinthians to warn believers against being unified with those who are far from faith. Now, realize that Paul is not saying that a Christian cannot be friends with non-Christians. Yet, believers need to be careful not to participate in the activities of those who are far from faith. Believers cannot be connected with nonbelievers in heavy, deep relationships, because they have different mindsets, different convictions, different actions, and a different standard of living. Relationships are on three levels. First, there’s the marriage relationship; a Christian should never marry a nonbeliever, for two people become one. How can a person of faith land on the same page as a person without faith? When the two become one, how do they get along? They live differently than each other, so there would be tension when they come together. Paul is advising caution, because it is in the best interest of those in the faith. Remember, just because the person you’re dating can spell Jesus doesn’t mean he or she has faith in Jesus. Another type of relationship is your closest friendship. That person should be a Christian; otherwise, if your very best friend is a non-Christian, then you’re going to have very different conversations, very different ways you spend your free time, and very different activities that you enjoy. The third type of relationship is a working relationship, like partners in a business. If you’re with someone of a different faith, they will have very different ethics than you. Okay, this is important: Paul’s instruction does not mean that we are to avoid people that are far from faith. He is not saying that you should go shut yourself away from all of them. He’s talking about those close people—the ones you let in that most affect your life—and those people should be people of faith, for relationship is influence. Whoever you allow close to you shape who you are, so guard who you allow to be close to you.

Lastly, Paul mentions the body again, and he begins to talk about weakness. He refers to a “thorn in the flesh.” No one knows exactly what this is, for he doesn’t tell us in the letter. Some speculate it’s poor eyesight, or maybe it’s a physical disability, like the deformity that resulted from all the beatings he received. 2 Corinthians 12:8-10 reveals that Paul begged God to take it away three different times. Each time, God said that His grace was all Paul needed, for His power works best in weakness. Now, really think about this. At the end of the day, we’re weak. We’re not sufficient. We don’t know everything, nor are we strong enough to navigate the path that we’re on. There are moments in life that we feel like the world is on our shoulders. Guess what? It’s temporary. Someday we’re going to go to our real home, living forever in God’s presence. When we encounter weakness, we realize that our sufficiency is insufficient. Therefore, our identity cannot be in this earthly body or this life. Rather, our identity must be wrapped up in Christ, and we need to realize that we have a better place. This is only our temporary home.





Share

12 02 2010

There is something I really want to relay to you, but first let’s look at the issue of forgiveness. Paul writes about this subject in 2 Corinthians 2:5-11. In this passage of Scripture, we see that someone has deeply hurt the church, and the church opposed him, which means they were pretty ticked off. We don’t know many details other than this. We don’t know what the mean did, or who the man was. It could be the man discussed back in 1 Corinthians 5, who was living in sin with his stepmother. It could be one of the people who had called Paul a false prophet, or it could just be somebody else. We aren’t sure. Yet, from this story there are two observations we can apply to our own lives. First, it is evident that the church didn’t want to forgive the person yet or they would have naturally done so. This shows that forgiveness is many times a choice. Secondly, punishment has to be in balance. There are two extremes: too lenient and too harsh. Leniency produces carnal lifestyles. Harshness produces excessive sorrow and lack of forgiveness. From here, Paul begins to transition into a talk about how we, as people of faith, must live differently, and he uses this forgiveness situation to begin that discourse, which takes place for the next few chapters. After pointing out the correct way to respond in a situation that demands forgiveness, Paul wanted to show the Corinthian believers the other ways in which they were also to live differently.

In 2 Corinthians 2:14-16, Paul uses imagery that was very familiar to the church in Corinth but quite honestly, very unfamiliar to us today. He talks about a triumphal procession and sweet perfume. Now, Corinth was an important trade city between Rome and Asia, and whoever controlled Corinth controlled trade in the world at that time. Therefore, the Romans had a heavy military force in that city, for they weren’t going to lose control of it to any other power. Whenever another country attacked and Rome won—which is usually what happened—the Roman general would then march through the streets of Corinth, and behind him were all the captives chained together. Before the general was a procession that had these huge pots of incense that were lit, and they were swinging these back and forth, producing a huge cloud of incense; this was a type of worship to the Roman gods. Paul makes the comparison that we are slaves to Christ, in a good way. We’ve been captivated by His love, in a sense, and He’s given us freedom. Our lives are a fragrance to God and to all those around us. The Corinthian church knows exactly what He’s talking about.

So this aroma—this fragrance—produces two very different reactions. To those on the Roman side, this incense was a sweet-smelling aroma. If you were in chains, it was a very negative thing; it was a reminder of your captivity. In the same way, because as a Christian you live differently, your life produces an “aroma,” in a sense, to those around you. Paul says that those who are being saved and those who are perishing perceive this fragrance differently. Our lives are understood and accepted by some and are repulsive and rejected by others. We are not responsible for how people perceive the Gospel. We are responsible for rightly sharing the Gospel. On our own, using our own ability, we cannot correctly live or share the love of Christ to this world. Only God makes us adequate for the job. We need the Holy Spirit’s help. Not everyone will understand, accept, or applaud your faith in Jesus. When you share Christ, you may receive rejection. Yet, there may be a sense of acceptance and excitement. You never know where a person is at in their life, so just share. Rightly share the gospel of God’s love to this world.

Paul next talks about a treasure—this knowledge and grace—that’s stored in this earthly vessel. He picks up the theme of sharing the gospel again in 2 Corinthians 5:11-15. Paul reveals that sharing the gospel is our “fearful responsibility,” meaning that this is serious stuff! This is life and death; this is heaven and hell! Every single one of us will stand before our Creator. At that time, the only thing that matters is that we realized on earth that Jesus Christ took our faults and walked to the cross to be punished where we should have been. We are to accept His love and grace, making Him Lord and Savior of our life.

Christ’s love causes us to live at extremes. God’s love for people so motivated Paul that he wasn’t trying to win a popularity contest. He didn’t want to see people perish. He would do whatever it takes. Paul is basically saying that he will do anything short of sin to reach those who don’t know Jesus. So how about us? Does God’s love so consume us that we are willing to be moved to such extremes? Once a person comes to Christ, they become new! The old way of living disappears over time, and a new, God-centered life emerges. Paul says we are the ones whom God uses to reconcile the world to himself! You and me. We are called ambassadors for Christ, which means that we are God’s representatives to those around us. We are diplomats of God’s love and Good News. It’s our job to love people; it’s the Holy Spirit’s job to convict them, and it is God’s job to judge. May God’s love in us be overpoweringly obvious! May everyone we come in contact with be confronted with the love of Christ!





Comfort

5 02 2010

At some level, I think we all enjoy our comforts or being comfortable. There’s nothing worse than being uncomfortable and you cannot do anything about it. I also notice that the older I get, the more I like comfort. Well, the book of 2 Corinthians also talks about comfort.

Paul’s tone is different in 2 Corinthians from what it was in 1 Corinthians. The years between these two books were very, very difficult for Paul. He had been persecuted, beaten for his faith, and at one point, he thought he was literally going to die. In 2 Corinthians, he defended his credentials to that church. Some people, whom Paul called “false teachers,” were going around and saying that Paul didn’t really speak for God, that he wasn’t a true minister of the faith, so Paul had to combat them. He had to go on the offense. The enemy is not passive and is considered the “Father of Lies,” according to the Bible, so there are times we have to go on the offense. Silence would only allow an unchecked environment for deception to grow.

We think Paul learned about these false teachers when he sent Timothy, his younger partner in ministry, to the church in Corinth for an update. Timothy returned and basically said, “Houston, we have a problem.” So Paul decided to write his letter. As he was about to describe tough times in his life, he began by giving all praise to God, who he says is the source of all comfort. Most people don’t start off this way when they talk about all of life’s difficulties. It’s not your normal conversation about situations that almost killed you. Yet, what Paul did was powerful. He is showing us that we must focus on the solution and not the problem surrounding us. The problem or situation you are facing and enduring right now is not bigger than the God you serve. He has the capacity to give you comfort and strength. Our focus must be upon Him as our source, and not upon the situation. Whoever or whatever you place your trust in will be your source of comfort. So can your source deliver? Can your source truly provide the help you so desperately need? Talents and abilities can be a source of comfort, but are they limitless? Alcohol, drugs, habits, vices, relationships, other people…they can be a sense of some comfort. But not ALL comfort. So what is your source? Whatever you focus on is what you put your faith in. And what you put your faith in, that is your source.

Here is a statement that you need to drill into your spirit: “But God!” You may be unemployed, but God! Maybe you are sick, but God! Perhaps you are hurt and broken-hearted, but God! There may be a family situation, but God! We serve the God who can and does! That’s why Paul started out 2 Corinthians by focusing on God and saying “all praise to God.”

Usually there are three reasons for times of hardship and pain. The first is our own wrong choices. The second is wrong choices from others. Other people’s sin costs us; it hurts us. Each person’s choices affect everyone around them. The last reason is the fact that we live in a hopelessly broken world. This means that things don’t run the way that they’re supposed to run.

During these difficult times, who can fix these problems? Well, first off, God can forgive our wrong choices and help us get on the path of restoration, strength, and spiritual health. God can give us the ability to forgive others and become stronger as a result of pain others have caused. God can give us the ability to have power over the influence of this world. Once we find our source of comfort in God, we must help others do the same. We know our comfort is in Christ, so why wouldn’t we share that? When going through pain and suffering, to remain focused only on your own needs produces a self-absorbed person. The default of pain and suffering is to wall-up and shut down. The Biblical principle is to give away what you need most. If you need comfort, give comfort. It will be the last thing you want to do, but it’s powerful. It keeps you from being self-consumed.

Let me leave with you with one more thing. Some of you reading this may be going through a painful circumstance. 2 Corinthians 1:9 says that God is the God who raises the dead. Yes, He raises the physically dead, but also the emotionally and spiritually dead. Some of you may feel dead on the inside. Maybe something happened to you, and inwardly, you feel like you died. God raises the dead. Keep in mind during this journey, though, that one of the most major misconceptions is that once a person relies on God as the source, then all that person’s problems go away. Reality is the problem doesn’t go away, but God inside of you becomes bigger than the problem. God makes you strong. He gives you the ability and strength to walk a very difficult path, and God journeys with you. So my question is: who or what is your source? I deeply hope it’s the One who can provide all comfort.